tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post4386899814575281683..comments2024-03-18T19:59:12.814+02:00Comments on Life in Israel: Interesting Psak: Instant ReplayRafi G.http://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-57208055818028951772008-08-06T14:26:00.000+03:002008-08-06T14:26:00.000+03:00great story!great story!Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-21144895903985008612008-08-06T14:20:00.000+03:002008-08-06T14:20:00.000+03:00When we finally got the video of our wedding we no...When we finally got the video of our wedding we noticed that at the benching sheva brochos someone who used to be frum was given a brocho. He hesitated as he looked through the bentcher, and some people in the crowd, to help him find which one to say, shouted "She-hakol!" Sure enough, instead of "shehakol bara lichvodo" he ended with "she-hakol ni-hiyeh bidvaro."<BR/><BR/>After some laughter and a little concern we actually did call a Rav, and it is not a problem.<BR/><BR/>Luckily this was bentching and not the chuppa!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-38094188043679502102008-07-23T09:30:00.000+03:002008-07-23T09:30:00.000+03:00yaak - that is cool. I never heard that...yaak - that is cool. I never heard that...Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-34842967942820849152008-07-23T01:53:00.000+03:002008-07-23T01:53:00.000+03:00I've previously heard of "watching the video" to t...I've previously heard of "watching the video" to try to nullify the wedding in cases of husbands who refuse to give a get.yaakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08179304707239865515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-23473495952608128162008-07-22T13:06:00.000+03:002008-07-22T13:06:00.000+03:00We do it twice - once under the chuppa and once at...<I>We do it twice - once under the chuppa and once at bentching</I><BR/><BR/>Yes, we do it twice and the one in bentching is not m'akev anything if missed.<BR/><BR/>Its nahug to have it, but its not like it retroactively disqualifies anything.<BR/><BR/>I'd like to hear from a halachik authority what the rationale was...Jameel @ The Muqatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15890095633246557332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-43722982021680552872008-07-22T12:51:00.000+03:002008-07-22T12:51:00.000+03:00I have no idea why. Do the sheva brachos under the...I have no idea why. Do the sheva brachos under the chuppa not need to be done? We do it twice - once under the chuppa and once at bentching - I assume there is a need for each one separately and combining them would not be an option. But I do not know. The article did not specify.Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-6840784275436728022008-07-22T12:49:00.000+03:002008-07-22T12:49:00.000+03:00I dont understand why they had to matriach the tzi...I dont understand why they had to matriach the tzibbur at all.<BR/><BR/>Why could have easily have done this afterwards? There would have been sheva brachot in birkat hamazon.<BR/><BR/>Why is this m'akev? What is it m'akev? We invest so much effort into ensuring the wedding is halachikally binding -- the original kiddushin and nissuin brachot were done correctly, the ketuba was done and given, the kidushin with the ring were done before wittnesses, as was yichud!<BR/><BR/>Why did this davka need to be done under a chuppa at the cost of making everyone crazy (including embaressing the person who mis-recited the bracha)Jameel @ The Muqatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15890095633246557332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-21196891784617101632008-07-22T10:01:00.000+03:002008-07-22T10:01:00.000+03:00Did the Chassan's team wager a time out?Thats a co...Did the Chassan's team wager a time out?<BR/>Thats a cool story.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-49320497426609576152008-07-22T08:38:00.000+03:002008-07-22T08:38:00.000+03:00maybe he was not sure what to do and debated shoul...maybe he was not sure what to do and debated should he speak up or not and then just could not hold it in any longer...Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-16202276766560580912008-07-22T07:34:00.000+03:002008-07-22T07:34:00.000+03:00nucklehead waits to be matriach the tzibur and doe...nucklehead waits to be matriach the tzibur and doesn't say something right away. if he's that positive, he should run up and quietly speak to the mesader. NOT wait till the tzibur is out and the wedding family is out and the chupah is being dismantled, etc.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com