tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post5891480791279757385..comments2024-03-29T06:05:20.562+03:00Comments on Life in Israel: yeshiva bochur demands woman on bus move to the back and then can't get a shidduch dateRafi G.http://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-77440315259523915782019-07-31T05:40:44.725+03:002019-07-31T05:40:44.725+03:00superstition? maybe it is a blow to his self-confi...superstition? maybe it is a blow to his self-confidence, so even if kepeida is actually nothing his performance is damaged because his self-worth is low? I don't really know.Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-24706658585237706042019-07-31T01:51:16.863+03:002019-07-31T01:51:16.863+03:00To be specific, where in Chazal do we see a source...To be specific, where in Chazal do we see a source for kapeida being the reason why someone has not found a shidduch? Sholomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-26002309092843552892019-07-31T01:22:03.542+03:002019-07-31T01:22:03.542+03:00Anonymous,
Not that I want to get into semantics a...Anonymous,<br />Not that I want to get into semantics and ignore the major point (which was that the issue was who he is as a person), but how would YOU understand kepeida -- and where does the concept appear in Chazal? (At least, in terms of how it is understood by this bochur?)Sholomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-77290380412003878872019-07-30T00:24:16.436+03:002019-07-30T00:24:16.436+03:00sholom,
kepeida is magic? how do you define magic?...sholom,<br />kepeida is magic? how do you define magic?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-86466014606770202482019-07-29T20:42:50.591+03:002019-07-29T20:42:50.591+03:00should such a person sire children ?should such a person sire children ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-53578612420415359102019-07-29T19:04:02.369+03:002019-07-29T19:04:02.369+03:00Excellent comments, Sholom! Thank you.Excellent comments, Sholom! Thank you.LI Readernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-9491939014706661722019-07-29T15:33:44.757+03:002019-07-29T15:33:44.757+03:00All the incident did was reveal what type of perso...All the incident did was reveal what type of person he was. <br />That hasn't changed, as he thinks the issue is her kepeida, rather than his own personality. <br />Too bad that he attributes his troubles to magic, rather than consider how unpleasant it would be to live with a person like him. Sholomnoreply@blogger.com