tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post6726897503460468344..comments2024-03-29T11:40:46.477+03:00Comments on Life in Israel: Informal survey: BBQ appropriate or not for breaking the fast?Rafi G.http://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-82772613033781499862013-06-26T10:46:04.087+03:002013-06-26T10:46:04.087+03:00It depends on the context. If you go to a park, or...It depends on the context. If you go to a park, or if you do it at home in such a way that it could be called "a barbecue" and not just "dinner", then you're getting into the inappropriate zone, since it's getting festive. But if it's just a normal meal, and you happen to be cooking the food on the grill, then anyone who has a problem with it is just over-reacting.<br /><br />You get into problems with Yom Hazikaron and Yom Hashoah when it's done the former way. If you did it in the latter way on those days, no one would care, because no one would know, just like no one would know if you microwaved a burrito.<br /><br />We (and, judging by the smell, many of our neighbors) cook food on the grill for Shabbat. Calling our Shabbat meals "barbecues" makes little more sense than calling a soup-based meal a "boil".Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040752573684514389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-53428512520675852142013-06-26T00:17:55.029+03:002013-06-26T00:17:55.029+03:00I'd say it's more of a "marit ayin&qu...I'd say it's more of a "marit ayin" type of issue. Because a BBQ is noticed in public (the neighborhood generally smells it), and perhaps most people see "al haesh" as festive, or at least a moment of enjoying oneself - so it comes off as awkward to be "having fun" immediately following a sad fast. But I'd agree it's a midas chasidus.MiriamSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-76284890312468792472013-06-26T00:12:55.867+03:002013-06-26T00:12:55.867+03:00It's a way of cooking and just fine. Just don...It's a way of cooking and just fine. Just don't make a party out of it. Eat inside like always.<br /><br />Who eats meat after a fast? Doesn't everyone eat milchigs? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-44142458018661370832013-06-25T21:21:14.917+03:002013-06-25T21:21:14.917+03:00To me, it's just a method of cooking.
Once ...To me, it's just a method of cooking. <br /><br />Once when I was pregnant I defrosted ground meat for hamburgers, then realized the next day was the fast day. My husband asked the rabbi about whether it was a problem for a pregnant woman (and kids) to eat burgers on the actual 17th of Tammuz, and he said it wasn't. I don't remember actually using the barbeque though; I may have just cooked them using the broiler.tesyaanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-184605158034428782013-06-25T18:28:39.416+03:002013-06-25T18:28:39.416+03:001. true, but for many people it is not just done o...1. true, but for many people it is not just done on holidays, but is also just another method of cooking. I barbecue fairly frequently,., and not just n joyous occasions. I sometimes make dinner on the bbq just because we like it. I bbq chicken for shabbos sometimes. <br /><br />2. I know its not forbidden. thats why I asked if its perhaps inappropriate rather than using the word forbidden.Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-24743591752775331802013-06-25T18:26:51.384+03:002013-06-25T18:26:51.384+03:00its exactly what I am looking for. that was my tho...its exactly what I am looking for. that was my thought when I suggested perhaps it is inappropriate, but I was wondering if maybe I was making too much of it.Rafi G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00699851287106903971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-52435971541556643872013-06-25T18:16:08.524+03:002013-06-25T18:16:08.524+03:00Being that bbq's are generally done on a holid...Being that bbq's are generally done on a holiday (4th of July, yom haatzmaut) I personally would not do it.<br /><br />Is it forbidden? Of course not.Moshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015783041237520805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20257999.post-46469919073548640412013-06-25T18:15:51.149+03:002013-06-25T18:15:51.149+03:00I don't know if anyone has suggested this yet,...I don't know if anyone has suggested this yet, though I know its not really what you're looking for, but I think it might be particularly inappropriate to BBQ for SA"T since we lost the korbanot today. It'd just be a little sadly ironic you know?Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15791754883571053571noreply@blogger.com