I have not counted in a while, but we get upwards of around a dozen or so ad books in our mailbox every week. Most of them go straight into the trash. A select few of them get brought into the house. One of them is the ad book that is the subject of the report on Walla News. Metzia is new, it is unique, it is colorful, and it is normal (and I advertise in it).
The story goes that Metzia is different than most of the other locals magazines in the sense that it includes women in its advertising. Meaning, if an advertiser wants to include an image of a woman, a woman that is modestly dressed, Metzia does not discriminate and will include the image. Most (not all) of the other magazines do discriminate and do not allow images of women, no matter if they are modestly dressed in the image or not..
Metzia has come under threat. One rav from RBS C (a.k.a. Gimmel) sent a letter to Metzia saying it is not appropriate, nor is it acceptable, and they should at least not distribute in their neighborhood, if not stop altogether (or take out women completely). Another influential rav is referenced who also called and had his people call saying to take out women. Theyy stated explicitly they would tell advertisers to pull their ads if Metzia would not comply, and some have begun to do so.
The owner of Metzia agreed to not distribute to any household that would opt out and send the address and state explicitly they do not want to receive the magazine, but he did not agree to cancel distribution to an entire neighborhood on the say so of one person or a few people who claim to be speaking for everybody.
People can decide to do business wherever they want. I can advertise in one book and not in another for whatever reason I want - budget, style, target audience, I like one and not the other.. Strong-arming and bully tactics are wrong, but at the end of the day, it is the choice of the advertiser to say he will or will not advertise in any given booklet. If they do not want to look for the business of the readers of Metzia, they do not need to.
However, besides for a few advertisers pulling advertisements, a woman who was in RBS C distributing the booklet came under attack. She had to be extricated from the mob by her husband who was in the area, and has filed a police report.. I am not quite sure what happened, but it seems she was spotted distributing the booklet and was told to either remove every single one from every mailbox she had put them in already or she would not be allowed to leave.
The owners of Metzia are standing their ground. They say there is nothing in halacha against the appearance of women in books and magazines, and they will not capitulate on these made up rules by extremists. Basically, anyone who does not like Metzia can take his ad booklet and toss it straight into the garbage, just like many people do with every other ad book they do not like but continue to receive.
Personally I appreciate the return to normalcy, or semi-normalcy, and I hope it shows others that it can work and the extremists do not need to be listened to. They can be extreme for themselves, but people do not appreciate when the extremists set the tone for the neighborhood.
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ReplyDeleteI imagine these extremists who think seeing women is assur also say internet is assur, so one includes the other
DeleteThe article is totally one sided. The militant feminist-like group(not all of them are ladies) from bet Shemesh who have been pushing for women to be included have also told magazines, etc that if they dont include women they will sue them in court and open up competition to their magazines and boycott their businesses.. 2 wrongs dont make a right. They pretend to be innocent people fighting for equality but they use the same tactics as the other side. by the way, today its modest women in ads and tomorrow a non frum or more modern group will demand immodest women in ads. Where does it stop? As soon as you threaten lawsuits, the judges wont stop at knee length skirts, they will demand bikini ads in our papers too.
ReplyDeleteI am surprised they did not get a quote from the other side. maybe nobody would talk. maybe they didnt try. I dont know.
DeleteI dont know the law exactly, but from what I understand, the problem is being discriminatory. Saying no women is discrimination. Beyond that, level of modesty is in advertising is dependent on community standards.. as I said, I am not sure how it works, but so I have been told.
How can I get this magazine to NOT come to my mailbox? Who do I need to call? What number?
ReplyDeletethere is probably a phone number somewhere on the booklet - front, back, middle. call it and tell them I guess. maybe an email address
DeleteWhy should I have to to unsubscribe. Why a can't I ban all crap from my mailbox. Especially from those who don't respect the sensibilities of the community
Deleteif you find a way to, please let me know. there is no law here like the federal law in the US that bans all this spam mail.
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