translation:
I met a Jew that used to participate in a shiur in our community until a few years ago.
Him: How's everything? How's the Thursday night shiur? Does it still meet?
Me: Hi. For sure it still exists. Why don't you come anymore? Yalla, come back, we still have the shiur and cholent every Thursday night like we used to.
Him: Sorry my brother, then I did not have children. Today, baruch hashem, I have sons and daughters, that need to go to the schools.
Me: So, what's the problem? the shiur is late at night, after the kids go to sleep.
Him: No, that's not the problem. I can't go because they will throw my kids out of their schools if I come to your shiur.
Me: ahhh, now I understand. If a father at night drops everything to go to shiur, they will throw his children out of school.
Him: Correct
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Something is missing from this story. As written is makes no sense.
ReplyDeleteyou are right. it made sense to me because I am familiar with the kehilla to which he refers, so I didnt even think about it.
ReplyDeletethe kehilla where the shiur is held is a haredi kehilla of the "working haredim" - "new haredim" "israeli haredim" variety, and the more classic haredi schools arent excited about those types of people
I understand what you are saying, but what I cannot understand is why they would kick out his kids because he went to a shiur Friday night. If they kicked out anyone whose father went to work at a job, then I understand your explanation. But a shiur? Kollel men can go to a shiur, especially Friday night.
ReplyDeleteI mean, does the school know he works? (Does he?) They are ok with that, but not with going to some shiur where he will hear divrei Torah and maybe chap some chulent?
Something here does not compute.
for some people, a shiur torah might be good, but only in an acceptable shul/community. not in a shul that is considered "modern" or "trouble".
ReplyDeleteI would note that many times the concern for what other people might think is not realistic and is more in people's minds than actual truth. If they knew he was associated with this specific shul, they might actually not care and not throw his kids out, but he is afraid they will
It's pretty obvious, that if this is true, his kids are in the WRONG SCHOOL!!!!
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