Showing posts with label nine days. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nine days. Show all posts

Jul 20, 2026

Interesting Psak: Music in the Hospitals

Rav Yitzchak Zilbershtein, rav of Ramat Elchonon neighborhood of Bnei Braq was asked if the groups of people who go to the hospitals top bring cheer to patients by playing music, singing and dancing can contiue doing so during the Nine Days or if they should not play live music during these days of mourning over the destruction of the mikdash?


Rav Zilbershtein responded that the gemara says nothing is more important than pikuach nefesh, and bring cheer and joy to sick people is a great mitzva. Also, we find that joy and happiness helps the healing process.  So it is a great mitzva to go tot he hospitals and play music and sing and bring joy to the patients who have serious illnesses even during these difficult days of mourning...
source: Haredim10


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Jul 19, 2026

Tweet of the Day


translation:
Seriously, the Jerusalem Municipality is turning off the music and issuing fines in the Machane Yehuda Market because of the Nine Days

I posted this because it went somewhat viral and the suggestion in it is interesting and cute, but it is wrong. The Jerusalm municipality twitter/x account responded that their shutting of the music and distributing of fines had nothing to do with the Nine Days. They were shutting down music and giving out fines because of municipal bylaws being violated in the playing of loud disruptive music during the "quiet hours", aka siesta hours, of 2-4pm, and also the business owners had put their music guy making all that noise out in the public walkway without a permit rather than inside their own premeses...

it is easy to assume even something as ridiculous as what was originally posted. It is good to get the true story.

While it might be against halacha to play music during the Nine Days (yes, there are different minhagim, and also different interpretations of what is considered prohibited music in regards to the Nine Days), as far as I know there are no laws against it in the legal books of Israel (other than wedding halls being shut down, and I dont think that is a law rather a directive from the Rabbanut kashrut authorities)...







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Jul 29, 2025

Interesting Psak: Laundry Motzei 9 Av

Rav Bentzion Hacohen Kook, one of the leading Poskim nowadays, was asked by a leading Rosh Yeshiva about doing laundry on this coming Sunday night, Motzei Tisha B'Av.

The question asked was about yeshiva bochurim who will be going to their camps on Monday, the day after Tisha B'Av, and need to do laundry Sunday night to prepare for their trip away.

To point out - the custom is that during the Nine Days we do not do laundry (caveat that Sephardim do laundry except for the week of Tisha B'Av itself and there are possibly some other customs as well). This has been extended to the night after Tisha B'Av to commemorate that the main burning of the midash actually happened on 10 Av so we refrain from laundry and other restrictions until noon of 10 Av.

So the Rosh Yeshiva asked the Rav was about these young men who cannot wait until the 10th because they will be going away and need the laundry den before that? And also, what about for people who will be getting married on Monday, can they do laundry on Sunday night in preparation for the wedding?

Rav Kook answered with an explanation he heard from his rebbi, Rav Elyashiv.

Rav Kook said that the bride and groom themselves (not guests or family members) can start doing the needed laundry on Sunday night, while other family members can start doing their laundry Monday morning without waiting for mid-day. People who will be traveling on Monday can do laundry on Monday morning before mid-day. At the end of the day, the custom to not do laundry is just a custom.

I am not quite sure what that last comment means. Customs are considered pretty important, especially customs brought in the actual Shulchan Aruch and commentaries.. dismissing it as "just a custom" seems out of character, but it gives me leeway on lots of things! 

Regarding the campers laundry question, Rav Kook said that the comment about someone traveling on 10 Av was regarding someone traveling to perform a mitzva. It is not clear if one is traveling not for a mitzva but for personal reasons and benefits if this would be allowed. Rav Kook concludes though that if any aspect of a mitzva is involved, one can be lenient and do laundry on Sunday night. Yeshva bochurim going on Monday, 10 Av, to camp under the auspices of the yeshiva, is surely involving a mitzva in some way as it will include chizzuk, or inspiration and the boys strengthening themselves religiously, so they can surely do laundry on Sunday night. Better, if possible, to wait until the morning but if that is not possible, laundry can be done Sunday night. 
source: Behadrei





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Jul 23, 2023

Siyum's are getting out of hand (video)









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Aug 3, 2022

Lapid/Netanyahu are NOT religious

Two minor moles in the news today were turned into mountains.

The first is that PM Yair Lapid is going to be taking a vacation up north this weekend.

The second is that MK Benjamin Netanyahu got a haircut.

Neither sounds all that interesting or titillating, does it?

Well, let's look one by one.

The Likud and then the Haredi media made a big deal about Lapid going on vacation from Thursday to Sunday, including Tisha B'Av. They said his is "post-Jewish", it is a chutzpa to go on vacation on Tisha B'Av, disconnected form the people, disconnected from Judaism, etc.

Lapid responded by saying he will cut his vacation short. I guess it is ok to vacation and drive home on Shabbos, but not ok to sit in a tzimmer on Tisha B'Av.

Some Haredi reporters and others on Twitter responded ot the Haredi media attacks pointing out that many rabbonim and Admorim are vacationing in European resort towns and will be there on Tisha B'Av as well. Surely they will be mourning the destruction of the mikdash in their vacation suites, but it does nto change the fact that they are on vacation. One even said he hopes Lapid doesnt retaliate by sending the Mossad around the EUropean resort towns to collect pictures of the Admorim vacationing abroad on Tisha B'Av.

What's the difference if Lapid doesn't commemorate Tisha B'av and the destruction of the mikdash from his home in Tel Aviv or from his home in Jerusalem or from a tzimmer up north?

The second item is more titillating, in my opinion, because it is staged.

Bibi's haircut.

Yinon Magal posted a picture online, which he later deleted once Bibi started to get attacked but you can't really delete things from the Internet, of Bibi getting a haircut today while working in his office.




The picture raised a ruckus, by the people rather than the media. It is the "Nine Days" leading up to Tisha B'Av and haircuts are forbidden, at least for Ashkenazim which Netanyahu is. Magal deleted the post and picture, but what's done is done.

First, look at it. He couldnt stop working for a few minutes to get the haircut? he gets his hair cut while sitting in an office chair wearing a suit, and does not take his glasses off to get a full trim? he doesn't even move his cup of coffee or tea away from the haircutting area? Some think this is obviously staged to look busy, to look multitasking, to look important.

I am not going to look for a hetter to justify Netanyahu's haircut. There is no shortage of possibilities, but the main thing is that Netanyahu is NOT RELIGIOUS! I hope I didn't shock anyone with that statement and revelation. Netanyahu is not religious. He does not keep halacha. Netanyahu eats all forms of treif food. he doesn't keep Shabbos. He doesn't put on tefillin (he supposedly always refuses all Chabad attempts), he cheated on his first wife (supposedly), and he does not keep most of Jewish law. I do not think that getting a haircut in the Nine Days is his most serious violation that this is what we have to call him out on. He probably violates more serious halachot on a daily basis.

That being said, one joke is warranted, I think. Because Dr Avishai Ben Chaim says Netanyahu is "Second Israel", or at least its representative, so even though he is actually Ashkenazi but as part of Second Israel he can follow the minhag of Sefardim and allow himself the haircut this week as there is no "week of" Tisha B'Av.

All that being said, I do not like it when people call out our secular politicians for not keeping specific halachos. Most don't keep any at all and most of the ones that do keep some keep them very minimally.

Get this. Neither Netanyahu nor Lapid are religious. The Nine Days don't mean much to either of them. If they do anything religious it is most likely to keep their religious and Haredi political partners (or potential partners) happy and to sway some [potential] voters. There is no need to act surprised and shocked every time they do something against halacha or minhag.





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Jul 31, 2022

Interesting Psak: don't make a siyyum

Rav Dovid Yosef, Chief Rabbi of Har Nof in Jerusalem, said in his shiur that once a year we are told to not eat meat as part of our mourning for the destruction of the mikdash. It is inappropriate to make a siyyum specifically during this period just to be able to eat meat. We should make an effort, Rav Yosef said, to mourn for Jerusalem, as one who mourns for Jerusalem will merit to see its rebuilding.

Further, Rav Yosef said, there is an aberrant trend of people to hire yeshiva bochurim to make a siyyum in order to circumvent the prohibition of eating meat. Needless to say, Rav Yosef doesn't like this trend and tells people to stay away from doing this, and we need to show that we care about the mourning and just not eat the meat.
source: Actualic

Honestly, this is what I do and what I believe. I dont make siyyumim during this period, nor do I look for them. I do not think it is such a big deal to not eat meat for about a week.

That being said, it is somewhat funny to hear a rabbi tell people to not learn Torah (though to be fair he is sayign to not make a siyyum, not to not learn). I do think that it is somewhat pathetic to see people go crazy that they cant have meat for a week and try to find all sorts of ways around it. And I say this as someone who eats a fair amount of meat. 

On the other hand, it is hard to mourn for something that happened so long ago that we don't even know about firsthand, and not even tenth hand or a hundredth hand and it is only something we read about. I might not like to do it, but I understand why so many people don't feel the mourning at a level that avoiding meat is important. Many of the rules of this week feel like this whole thing is overdone. It is somewhat sad that this is all that so many of us are left with -a bunch of rules we don't really care about that are supposed to mean something we find impossible to actually feel, and think that anyone who does is really just playacting with behavior and emotions he thinks he is supposed to exhibit. 

Our mourning is really at most a learned experience, an academic one, rather than an emotional one, for many people.

Maybe if people don't actually feel, it, and avoiding meat does not bring them to such feelings any longer, so finding loopholes is maybe not such a bad thing - hey, at least people learn more Torah because of it (in order to make siyyumim)...


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Jun 17, 2021

President to be sworn in early

We never did anything major during the "Nine Days", and generally not even during the "Three Weeks". Not major purchases, not trips or major events. It was always considered something that would bring "bad luck" of sorts. I remember when someone close to the family bought a car during the Three Weeks - family members pleaded with her to wait, but she bought the car. That car was in a number of accidents, besides for often breaking down. While it might have just been a lousy car and she a lousy driver, family members always blamed it her having bought it during the Three Weeks.

President-elect Yitzchak Herzog was set to be sworn into office on July 7, 2021, and while that is deep into the Three Weeks, it was actually scheduled for the following Wednesday, but that is during the Nine Days. Both President Rivlin and President-elect Herzog agreed and requested that the date be pushed up to avoid such a major move during the Nine Days.
source: Behadrei

While it is still during the Three Weeks, here in Israel, perhaps because of the dominant Sefardic influence, the Nine Days is considered much more significant and the Three Weeks is more "regular".

Both Rivlin and Herzog are traditional Jews, sensitive and connected to their Judaism. It is refreshing that this request came from them, and it was [seemingly] easily worked out, rather than something that had to be fought over or not even done or noticed and then snickered about.




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Jul 21, 2020

eating meat during the Nine Days in quarantine?

With all the different heterim and allowances on fast days and during the Nine Days and Three Weeks, and previously during sefiras haomer, I have yet to see the interesting psak of a rabbi allowing people to eat meat during the Nine Days, even if just for people stuck in quarantine. Where is the rabbi who will allow meat due to the difficulty of the times and the depressing state when in isolation?

And for a hypothetical question, would you go into quarantine "just" to be able to eat meat during the "Nine Days"?




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Jul 20, 2020

Interesting Psak: music during the Nine Days

By now there is not all that much new in this psak, especially after the piskei halacha we have seen during the times of Sefiras HaOmer and those in the days leading up to 17 Tammuz, but each period is slightly different and it must be said explicitly again for each period, with its own nuances.

Chief Rabbi Rav Yitzchak Yosef has paskened that people who are stuck in quarantine during the Nine Days are allowed to listen to music, and if they feel it necessary they can even listen to upbeat music with a quick pace.

According to Srugim, Rav Chaim Kanievsky paskened similarly though it says Rav Kanievsky added that one should preferably only listen to songs of texts from davening or other slow paced emotional songs.

According to Kipa, Rav Yosef's allowance is actually in stages:
1. at the first level, only audio clips are allowed - not videos.
2. listen with earphones so other people who are not in quarantine can't hear.
3. preferably a capella, vocal, songs, then if necessary calm music, and if still necessary for the person, he can listen to even fast paced music
4. the purpose for listening is to keep calm and not for other purposes
5. children can listen to childrens music with no problem
6. yeshiva students in yeshiva i the capsule system who need music in order to help them emotionally can listen






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Jun 14, 2020

The Nine Days and the Nine Days

The "Nine Days" starts this year on July 22 and ends on Tisha B'Av on July 30.

That is, unless you are talking about the Nine Days of the Israeli school system.

Everything has been in some disarray, with parents complaining that the time off due to COVID lockdowns and school closures needs to be made up. Also matriculation exam prep was messed up for many students in the 11th and 12th grades. The Teachers Union has not wanted to make anything up by giving up days that would normally be summer vacation.

The final decision seems to be that the school year will be extended by Nine Days. (source: JPost)

The Nine Days will not overlap with the Nine Days, which is a bit of a shame, since religious kids now have 18 summer days they can't do anything significantly fun instead of just 9, but so be it.


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Jul 29, 2019

Interesting psak: no Thursday night meaty cholent this week!

This does not seem to be a major chiddush, but basic halacha. It is interesting in the sense that someone felt it was important, or significant, enough that it needed to be published. It also points to a major cultural issue as well.

The question presented is regarding a major cultural trend in haredi areas of "Thursday night cholent". Guys get together at a cholent joint and sit around late Thursday nights eating cholent and kugel, beer and challa, and maybe a Hungarian will have some galla/ptcha. So, the question is, with Rosh Chodesh Av falling out this Thursday night-Friday, can the regular weekly "Thursday night cholent" events take place as usual or must they be skipped this week due to the advent of the Nine Days when eating meat is prohibited?

Rav Shabsi Yagel, rav of Bnei Hayeshivos in Ranana, responded that with the hope that this will no longer be relevant by Thursday night as by then hopefully the exile will be finished and we will by then have merited the geula, but if not, there is a difference between sefardim and ashkenazim in this regard.

There are different minhagim regarding eating meat during the Nine Days. Ashkenazim stop eating meat from Rosh Chodesh Av, meaning from Thursday night this year. Sefardim have other minhagim that allow eating meat on Rosh Chodesh, and some allow it on Motzei Shabbos as well (and some allow it all week and just prohibit eating meat and drinking wine during the week of Tisha B'Av itself). Yemenites allow eating meat throughout the Nine Days and only prohibit it at the seuda mafsekes right before Tisha B'Av.

That being the case, Rav Yagel said that in his shul in Ranana they have a weekly Thursday night shiur and they serve fleishige cholent with coca cola every week/ This week, because of Rosh Chodesh Av, they will be serving pareve cholent.

And, while some will suggest making a siyyum as a solution to be able to eat meat, Rav Yagel says such a siyyum cannot be scheduled for the Nine Days for the purpose of being able to eat meat, but if one's learning happens to come to a siyyum during the nine Days that is definitely something to celebrate and would be allowed to eat meat. Rav Yagel even relates a story in which arestaurant in herzliya contacted the kollel in Ranana and offered a proposal by which each night the kollel would arrange an avreich to go to the restaurant and make a siyyum so the customers of the restaurant can eat meat. In return, the restaurant would donate a percentage of the profits from those days back to the kollel. Rav Yagel says the Kollel rejected the proposal.

And, Rav Yagel concludes, the beis hamikdash is worthy of being mourned for, even if it means forswearing meaty foods on Thursday night and making do with kugel and other pareve foods.
(source: Srugim)

Personally this discussion seemed very straightforward with no unusual or controversial chiddush to make it noteworthy. As mentioned above, I think what makes it noteworthy is the cultural aspect of people being concerned regarding Thursday night cholent.



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Aug 11, 2016

Facebook Status of the Day




Translation: there is nothing like the nation of Israel.. even Jews selling shrimps don't forget to write BS"d (en: besiyata dishmaya - with the help of heaven) at the top

very much to the tune of Rav Levi Yitzchak of Berditchov....

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Aug 9, 2016

Doubting the wisdom of Chazal

I don't normally comment on op-eds, as everyone is entitled to their opinion. One type of op-ed I really don't like is the kind of op-ed in which the author is being "judgey" and maybe even holier than thou.

Dov Eichler, a Haredi journalist, has written an op-ed in Behadrei.

Eichler writes a strongly worded piece about a deception that is not uncommon during the Nine Days. A deception in which people find all sorts of siyyumim to hear so that they can be allowed to eat meat during the Nine Days.

Eichler references a restaurant in Boro Park that pays a rotation of avreichim to come in every half an hour and make a siyyum so that they can continue to have customers during the Nine Days and sell and serve meals as regular.

Eichler calls it a deception. He calls it making a joke of halacha. He calls it acting as if you are smarter than Chazal. Eichler's final two paragraphs are particularly strong in which he says he is not lecturing to anyone, but expressing disdain at this "combina" - this shady deal or deceptive practice. "If you must eat meat during these Nine Days despite them being categorized as national days of mourning, go ahead and eat. I am not coming to educate you, just don't make a joke of a hetter, don't make halacha into a joke... I am not a posek halacha or a talmid chochom, but I am also not an idiot. Sometimes something makes me think that we doubt the wisdom of Chazal. If we would only lie to them and to ourselves, nu, ok. But to doubt their wisdom? woe to the shame!"

I personally agree with his approach. Not his approach in talking about those who use the siyyumim to eat meat, but his approach in not looking for ways out of the Nine Days. It is just nine days, one or two of which is Shabbos anyways, and I can handle not having meat and wine for these days. The purpose is to make us think about the destruction of the mikdash, and I don't think nine days is asking so much of us.

As the Aruch Hashulchan says, members of other religions take off far longer periods of abstaining from various pleasures for their religions; Lent and Ramadan come to mind. The Aruch Hashulchan exhorts us to give these few days to show our minimal sacrifice for remembering the destruction of the Temple and not looks for ways out of it, even ways mandated in halacha.

Where I don't agree with him is in his criticism and scorn of people who take a different approach. If he were a community leader of some sort looking to exhort his community to changing its approach, that would be acceptable, I think. In the meantime, the people who look for the siyyumim, whether they hear them on the radio or in a restaurant on some sort of regular schedule, are at least following halacha as the Rama writes it - at a siyyum and seudas mitzva one is allowed to eat meant, though during "the week of", which does not apply this year, a siyyum should only have a basic minyan of people and not extras.

So, Chazal allowed it. And Chazal being pretty smart knew that people could use it to find ways to eat meat and "get out of the mourning" yet they did not put in limits and qualifications. And, without doubting the wisdom of Chazal, maybe they did so because they wanted to offer people a way out, for people who feel they need it. Since halachically it is ok to eat meat and it was Chazal who added it as a custom to adhere to, perhaps they also chose to leave it open enough to allow people a way out.





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Aug 8, 2016

PSA: Nine Days Siyyumim on the radio

Personally I do not look for siyyumim during the Nine Days in order to be able to eat meat. If I happen to be finishing something, I'll make a siyyum, but I won't schedule something to be specifically during the Nine Days. Others do differently, and that's fine by me.

FYI - here is a schedule, put out by Chabad, of siyyums that will be broadcast over the radio to increase the happiness of Torah during this sad time of mourning, as per the instructions fo the Lubavitcher Rebbe (zt"l). These siyyums will be broadcast on Radios Kol Hai and Kol Berama at different times of the day, as per the schedule below...






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Jul 20, 2008

PSA: daven opposite the Holy of Holies!


The Rav Ha'Kotel, Rav Shmuel Rabinowitz, in conjunction with the Western Wall Heritage Foundation, will be opening the Kotel tunnels to allow people to daven opposite the Holy of Holies.

If you have ever taken the Kotel Tunnels Tour, you will remember that there is that huge stone, and when you continue down to the left, you get to a certain point that is directly opposite the Holy of Holies.

During the last days of the "Three Weeks", specifically the days of 4, 5 and 6 Av, during which we mourn the destruction of the Batei Mikdash, the area opposite the Holy of Holies will be open to the general public for round the clock prayer. They are planning on having three days, 72 hours, of round the clock prayer at this site.

The thing is the area can only hold up to 40 people at a time, so they require you to register in advance if you want to daven there.

The phone number for registering is: 02-678-8452.

For anybody who will not go up to Har Habayit, this is the closest you can possibly get to the Holy of Holies, so it is a special opportunity for you.

Jul 19, 2007

Steven Spielberg Film Archive completed

The Steven Spielberg Jewish Film Archive has been completed and is online..There is plenty appropriate material there for the Nine Days....

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